Date: September 4th
Location: Greentree Club, New Rochelle, NY
First Dance: Everything, Michael Bublé
Special Dedication: I Wanna Be There, Blessid Union of Souls (played and sung to Joy by Brendan with a little help from Nite-Time)
Joy and Brendan had a lot of fun planning their wedding, and we had a lot of fun being a part of it. Music was an incredibly important part of the day for both of them. Their bridal party entrances were a well orchestrated event in and of themselves.
Brendan got two of his cousins to do all of the announcing, which was a very nice personal touch that we’ve seen a few times in the past couple of years. (It’s a great way to include more people in your big day, especially if you have a large family, like both Brendan and Joy). They had a fairly large bridal party which included parents and sponsors, which is a tradition in Filipino culture. For their parents and sponsors they chose the song I Feel Good by James Brown, which segued into Dynamite by the Taio Cruz for the bridal party.
For their own entrance they worked with Yves to come up with an arrangement of Don’t Stop Believing by Journey into What I Like About You by The Romantics. The band played the section of Don’t Stop Believing that has that iconic guitar lick, which crescendos right into two strong accented hits by the full band, just as Joy and Brendan entered. From there we kicked right into What I Like About You and the couple danced to a verse of that. At that point, the lights shifted and Yves switched into DJ mode to play a mix that Brendan customized himself for a dance number that the bridal party joined in on. I must say, these folks brought it on the dance floor. They choreographed the whole dance themselves and put on a show for all of the guests (and the band). I was seriously impressed with all of their dancing skills. It was a great way to set the tone for a night of dancing and celebration!
After the intros, things slowed down for a heartwarming moment between Joy and Brendan, the first dance, Everything by Michael Bublé. Half way through the song all the guests were asked to join in and everyone was ready to hit the floor!
When Brendan proposed to Joy he did so in the park with guitar in hand, serenading her with the song I Wanna Be There by Blessid Union of Souls. We weren’t there for that part obviously, but when Brendan wanted to surprise Joy with a recreation of that moment at their wedding reception we were excited to be a part of it, and Brendan was excited when he found out that I had written with Blessid Union’s producer a few years back. Nite-Time backed Brendan up as he serenaded Joy, who ended up joining in herself for some harmonies.
Another tradition we saw come back a bit this year is the money dance. I, for one, am all for it! If you’ve never seen this done it’s actually quite fun and can be pretty humorous. The couple gets out on the dance floor and the band starts up the music (we played several money themed songs). Meanwhile their guests line up on the floor with cash in hand, ready to pin it to the clothing of the happy couple. (If you try this, I would suggest doing what Joy did, tie an extra ribbon around you to pin the cash to, thus saving the dress). This is supposed to give them a helping hand to start their life together. I wish we had done it at our wedding! It’s so simple, so fun and totally interactive…
I wasn’t kidding when I said the music was very important to Joy and Brendan, they chose I Just Called to Say I Love You for Brendan to dance to with his mom, and My Girl for Joy to dance to with her dad, during which Brendan cut in. My Girl went right into The Way You Do the Things You Do and launched another great dance set. That brought us right to the cake cutting, the bouquet and the garter. Joy and Brendan embraced all of these wedding traditions and chose a great classic for each one. The cake? Sugar Sugar by The Archies. Bouquet? Girls Just Wanna Have Fun. Garter? Pretty Woman.
We had such fun with Joy and Brendan from our first meeting to the last note of the night, because they had fun and enjoyed the planning process together. We wish them all the best of everything life has to offer, and I’m sure they’ll have just the right soundtrack behind each moment!





























































